Random Thoughts

Every now and then we are reminded how fragile life is. You just can’t take it for granted.





Never take someone for granted, hold every person close to your heart cause you might wake up one day and realize that you've lost a diamond while you were too busy collecting stones.

Micheal Jackson - You will always be remembered

Its not a surprise how this man can touch the hearts of every generation alive today.

His songs broke cultural barriers.

Like any celebrity, he was under the scrutinity of the media everywhere and malicious rumours.

And for those who cant stop the accusations, there is a saying, let the past stay there, why bring it to the future......and i hope those who accused of all the things he did have a concious to live with the money you took from him. The child molestation story concentrates more on lootinng his money rather than the accusations itself. What can we say about the King of Pop, a filty rich guy is just putting it really plain.

We may never know the truth but the least that we can do now is to let him have his peace.

Nobody fits your gloves, Great Gloved One. Your songs will be heard from generations to generations to come.

There won't be anyone like you. You will definitely be remembered.

Here's to everyone who loved him, cherished him and loved him.

Lyrics to his favourite song.

Smile

Smile, though your heart is aching

Smile, even though it's breaking
When there are clouds in the sky

You'll get by...

If you smile

With your fear and sorrow

Smile and maybe tomorrow

You'll find that life is still worthwhile

If you just...

Light up your face with gladness

Hide every trace of sadness

Although a tear may be ever so near

That's the time you must keep on trying

Smile, what's the use of crying

You'll find that life is still worthwhile

If you just...

Smile, though your heart is aching

Smile, even though it's breaking

When there are clouds in the sky

You'll get by...

If you smile

Through your fear and sorrow

Smile and maybe tomorrow

You'll find that life is still worthwhile

If you just smile...

That's the time you must keep on trying

Smile, what's the use of crying

You'll find that life is still worthwhile

If you just smile...........

Rest In Peace M.J

The Power In A Sentence

When God leads you to the edge of the cliff, trust in Him fully and let go, only 1 of 2 things will happen, either He'll catch you when you fall, or He'll teach you how to fly!

God closes doors no man can open & God opens doors no man can close.

Have a blessed day and remember U r a blessing .

A very good article

I read this article a long time ago.
Apparently this article was written by a guy (imagine that). He sure has intelligence that goes way beyond than certain gender we know. Either that or the guy who wrote this is not a straight guy.

Intan asked me whether i remembered this sentence i told her maybe a couple of weeks back. Never settle for anything less than you deserve (in everything). Well, what can i say, my guruji of blogging, i am sure after you read this, you would definitely agree that this is the perfect heading for an article such as this......(i am sure u r nodding ur head now).

Than i thought why not put this article with this heading, quite cool.

NEVER SETTLE FOR ANYTHING LESS THAN YOU DESERVE ( its dedicated to all the wonderful people i know)

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then hell no, you can't "be friends".
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is YOU.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't stay with them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later. You cannot change a man's behavior.
Change comes from within. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...even if he has more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man: nothing more, nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat ON you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.

All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending... compromise is a two-way street. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE INDIVIDUALS... look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.

Dating is fun... even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always knows where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother's house.
Never co-sign for a man.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Don't allow your life to revolve around HIM: keep him in your radar but spend time with other people.

:o) Happy Reading :o)

Catchy Morning Pick-Up Sentence :o) Really Liked The Sound Of It

The Good Deed We Do To Others Would Come Back To Us

Sometimes the good deed we do for others will come back to us. Especially when we are in trouble, there is always someone who will come to our aid unexpectedly. This is God's way of blessing us for the love we have given to strangers.

And don't forget that when you 'cast your bread upon the waters,' you never know how it will be returned to you.

God is so big He can cover the whole world with His Love and yet so small He can curl up inside your heart.

Mummy's 64th Birthday

We just celebrated my ever-green mum's birthday in Anjappar's, Bangsar. She was too sick and tired to have chinese and western food, she really wanted to opt out for indian food. The food was not to our expectation. Maybe i was having too high hopes on this place that's why i got disappointed.

Just the other day, i just realized what a gem of a person she is. Its a normal story for everybody but for a mum who has a daughter who seem to be confused about marriage is quite big. I mean any mum in their right mum would want their princesses to be married off to a prince charming of course hence my mum is no different. Being tall for an asian plus being an indian female doesnt help coz u are being scrutinized by your community on what the heck is wrong with girl.....but as the saying goes, i dont live for ppl so ppl its my life when i settle down. What struck a code with me is she is a very open minded lady and she would only go for a certain decision if it pleases me and not to please anybody else. She kept my happiness as an importance.

She was telling me about Walter's kids greeting her and she congratulating them coz they are going to be married soon. And then Jane came over. Mummy told me her face was as black as ever coz Slyvia isnt hitched yet. There is a saying that goes, the more impatient you are, the more your patience will be tested. Anyway, from introducing a guy to Slyvia, i concluded she and the mum is quite choosy. That sort of confused me as who is getting married here, helloooooooo !!!!!!

Anyway coming back to the story, i am back tracking alot here.

Jane looked at mummy with teary eyes and asked when is it going to be our turn. For us dont seem to be coming. And mummy told her we jus have to have faith and alot of patience. There will be somebody for them.

I was quite impressed with her actually. Knowing majority indian mothers would have caused a scene coz their daughters aint married yet. But not mine. I am so proud of you, Mummy and i love you alot.

There was another time when her sentence struck a code with me. It was like lightning. Again it might sound like a normal sentence to everybody.Once i was going through a rough time during a relationship, i was very confused with the things happening around me. She said, God created you and i am very sure he created a life partner for you. What amazed me was the 100% confidence she had when she said that sentence. The best best part i didnt tell her what was bothering me. She jus saw my face and in an instant she knew. Or my facial expressions again played me out. Seriously i cant hide my emotions.

Truly mothers are amazing. You think they dont know you, trust me when i say you are wrong.

They know every inch of you.

Happy Thoughts