Random Thoughts

Maybe....

Maybe. . . we were supposed to meet the wrong people before meeting the right one so that, when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.

Maybe . . . it is true that we don't know what we have until we lose it, but it is also true that we don't knowwhat we have been missing until it arrives.

Maybe . . . the brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past;after all, you can't go on successfully in life until you let goof your past mistakes, failures and heartaches.

Maybe . . you should hope for enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enoug hsorrow to keep you human, and enough hope to make you happy.

Maybe . . . the happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

Maybe .. . . the best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.

Maybe . . . happiness waits for all those who cry, all those who hurt, all those who have searched, and all those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of all thepeople who have touched their lives.

May be . . you should do something nice for someone every single day, even if it is simply to leave them alone.

Maybe...there are moment in life when you miss someone -- a parent, a spouse, a friend, a child - - so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real, so that once they are around you, you would appreciate them more.

Maybe … giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they will love you back. Don't expect love in return; just wait for it to grow in their heart; but, if it doesn't, be content that it grew in yours.

I Believe

I Believe... That just because two people argue, it doesn't mean they don't love each other.And just because they don't argue,it doesn't mean they do love each other.
I Believe...That we don't have to change friends if we understand that friends change.
I Believe...That no matter how good a friend is, they're going to hurt you every once in a while and you must forgive them for that.

I Believe...That true friendship continues to grow, even overthe longest distance. Same goes for true love.
I Believe...That you can do something in an instant that will give you heartache for life.
I Believe...That it's taking me a long timeto become the person I want to be.

I Believe...That you should always leave loved ones with loving words.. It may be the last time you see them.
I Believe...That you can keep going long after you think you can't.
I Believe...That we are responsible for whatwe do, no matter how we feel.

I Believe...That either you control your attitude or it controls you.
I Believe...That heroes are the people who do what has to be donewhen it needs to be done, regardless of the consequences.
I Believe...That money is a lousy way of keeping score.

I Believe...That my best friend and I can do anything or nothing and have the best time.
I Believe...That sometimes the people you expect to kick youwhen you're down, will be the ones to help you get back up.
I Believe...That sometimes when I'm angry I have the right to be angry, but that doesn't give me the right to be cruel.

I Believe....That maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had and what you've learned from them and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated.
I Believe...That it isn't always enough, to be forgiven by others.. sometimes, you have to learn to forgive yourself.
I Believe...That no matter how bad your heart is broken the world doesn't stop for your grief.

I Believe...That our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are,but, we are responsible for who we become.
I Believe...That you shouldn't be so eager to find out a secret. It could change your life Forever.
I Believe...Two people can look at the exact same thing and see something totally different.

I Believe....That your life can be changed in a matter ofhours by people who don't even know you. I Believe...That even when you think you have no more to give, when a friend cries out to you - you will find the strength to help.
I Believe...That credentials on the wall do not make you a decent human being.

I Believe...That the people you care about most in life are taken from you too soon.

Simple Instructions

One day I asked God for instructions
On how to live on this earth...

God brought His voice close to my ear
and said…

Be like the sun. Arise early, and do not go to bed late.

Be like the moon. Shine in the darkness, but submit to the greater light.

Be like the birds.
Eat, sing, drink, and fly.

Be like the flowers,
Loving the sun, but faithful to your roots.

Be like the fruit.
Beautiful on the outside,
and healthy on the inside.

Be like the day, which arrives and leaves without boasting.

Be like the oasis.
Give your water to the thirsty.

Be like the firefly,Although small, it casts its on light.

Be like the water,
Good and transparent.

Be like the river,
always moving forward.

And above all things,
be like the heavens:
A home for God.

Beautiful quotes to live by

• Enjoy life, this is not a rehearsal


• Learn to accept the reality of yourself as someone with strengths and weaknesses who will have some good days and some bad days


• Don't fear pressure,for pressure is what turns rough stones into diamonds

• Our greatest glory is not in never falling, but in rising every time we fall


• Believe that your life is worth living and your beliefs will help create the fact




• Wherever you go, take your whole heart along


• If you love life, life will love you back


• Heal the past. Live the present. Dream the future
  

• Don't count the days, make the days count
  
• Don't allow guilt to eat away at your happiness. Accept your mistakes. It will make you feel
  much better..
  
  



• The key to happiness is having dreams. The key to success is making dreams come true
  
• The world is like a mirror. If you face it smiling, it smiles right back


• Happiness is not having what you want. It's wanting what you have


• Learn to listen. Opportunity sometimes knocks very softly

• Life would be infinitely happier if we could only be born at the age of eighty and gradually approach eighteen


• Good times, become good memories. Bad times, become good lessons


• It‘s not only the scenery you miss by going too fast


• Success is to get what you want. Luck is to keep what you get
  
• I look to the future because that's where I'm going to spend the rest of my life


• Live your life to the fullest!
  
• Always believe there is light at the end of the tunnel and you will have a better chance of continuing to move forward when faced with obstacles
  

Have a nice day

Welcome, Maegan Clare Jason

Megan Claire came out at UMMC on the 9-Nov-09 evening. Definitely a bundle of beauty and cuteness, following the footsteps of the elder sister, Melanie :)

I am excited thinking what's in store to see both of them growing up. I am sure the journey is going to be very eventful and amazing, no doubt. Of course, the tonnes of presents i am gonna bust in the coming years. No words will describe the feeling i have to see what is up their 2 little sleeves :) Amazing.

Arrogance

Each of us have a certain degree of this not so kind of nice attitude. And it depends how we show it at times. I am not saying I am perfect and again i would like to stress on the degree each of us use this not so kind, unfriendly attitude.

I should have written this blog yesterday and i was so fired up. Listening to St Thomas by Sonny Rollins on sax really dont help one bit. And moreover, wearing my new brightly coloured top is going to describe this story of mine as a sober one.

The real definition of this in the english vocabulary is offensive display of superiority or self-importance; overbearing pride. By the way, i am taking this definitions from the internet so we can't go wrong on the way it is explained rite.

I am writing this story because I have come across so many of this sort of individuals around.
Another question that comes to my mind is are you people or not?

I am writing this story because yesterday was the heights of all mother of arrogance. And this goes to the bloody son of gun, Mr. C whom me and my colleagues put up with nearly everyday. What the heck are you trying to prove? We slog day and night to get the projects done for you. Well, at the end of the day, when you get the god damn bloody golden P.O from customer, its your name which is being sung in everyone's lips.

Nobody actually looks at the back and sees the unsung heroes which is actually US, the people who slog to get the P.O for you. Piece of shit. And to think about your horrendous ways of doing work. Instead of touching your nose the easy way, you would go around the world and touch it. I mean sometimes we do come up with logical ways of how the project can be run but do you ever listen? You are so caught in your god damn world of arrogance that you REFUSE to see the logic we show you. I have nothing to say other than you are a piece of shit. You should be thankful that we have put up with the shit you give us everyday with so much of PATIENCE in all of us. Nobody should ever work under you because its really painful, hurting and traumatizing.

When i woke up this morning, i suddenly reliazed, maybe you show this shit, because you recommended me for this job. Hence whatever you do is TOTALLY RIGHT and i am TOTALLY WRONG. HELLOWWWWWWWW, I HAVE BRAINS AND I HAVE A HEART AS WELL. How much do you think one person can take? Eventhough you recommended me for this position, I work my ass out to what i am today. I didnt do it the easy way, i didnt sit idle around, shaking my legs. I slogged my heart out. Neither did i lick up to anybody's arse to get where i am today.

The basic fundamental rule for any human beings, you give respect, you get respect. Its as simple as ABC. What is so hard that minority of you cannnot understand?

What's the point of this attitude? I cannot really cannot digest any explanation given by anybody.
Are you trying to show you are far more greater than anyone of us around?
Are you showing that you have got a far bigger ego than me? What's the god damn bloody point?
Are you showing you are smarter than me? In what way? You are so stupid to think even think that you are smarter than me by using your 15 years of knowledge in the control valve business industry. You of all people should know I am only 3 years old in this industry and there is so much for me to learn. HOW STUPID CAN YOU BE? You definitely didnt earn any respect from me and neither will there be any ounce of respect shown to you at all from yesterday onwards. Enough is enough
Are you trying to step on people so you can climb up the corporate ladder? Just look around and see how many people actually like you. If you think there are some who like you, please check your facts again, they might be faking it. Like you fake it to the world.

Most of the time i see arrogance as a way of controlling another person, superority, dominance over another human being. Is this really very necessary?

It boils down to do we accept this sort of people the way they are? Give them the same amount of respect like we do to others yet.

At the end of the day, you have to find it really deep in your heart to forgive and forget this attitude shown by the people you know cause you know, you are far more a bigger hearted person than them.

Last but not least, for you people out there, where your arrogance is bigger than yourself, GROW UP or SHIFT OUT FROM PLANET EARTH. GO AND LIVE IN YOUR OWN PLANET. THERE IS NO PLACE FOR YOU HERE.