Believe That You Are Special

A very beary good fren of mine is turning the big 4 0 tomorrow.

It happens to Prophet Mohammed's b'day as well. But this fren of mine is a little daydreamer. She is daydreaming that the whole nation is on holiday celebrating her birthday. Anyway everyone has their own right to daydream on their birthdays.

As far from what i have observed, she is an excellent person to be with. A very open-minded , loving, down to earth, good fashion sense, terrific tudung collection and not forgetting everything has to match. I think she is the only person i know who has the most shoes and bags in her collection.

She needs Mr. Big to give her, her own set of walk-in closet. So far there has been no eligible bachelor that fits into her Mr. Big's shoes. Dont get me wrong here, she has her fair share of admirers but seriously, none who is really worth her value.


I know many including me who wish her Mr Right aka Mr Big aka Cullen aka Shah Rukh Khan aka god only knows how many more, would jus come straight knocking at her door in Pandan Indah and sweep her off her feet.

Missy, jus remember never ever bring your notch down to match any guy who dont deserve you. A word of advice to the guys, please make sure you are a few notches high to match this lady.

To my dearest fren,you have so much going for you. You have so much to look forward to. You are stepping to an exciting phase in your life.

Believe that you're special
through the hurt and the pain, for sunshine will come after the rain.
Hold on to your dreams,
let them not die and live not in the torment by questionaing why?
The answers are somewhere and sometimes unkind,
with so many reasons you will never find.
Be true to yourself, don't be what you're not,
for often you'll find you're all that you've got.
Don't become battered by games people and
don't take to heart what others may say.
You've got so much life and so much to give,
go out and enjoy it, go out there and live!
Though heartchae are many and tears they will flow,
the more that you live the more you will grow.
There are many that love you, don't ever forget,
let the past be a lesson you do not regret.
Learn as if you will live forever &
live life as if there is not tomorrow.


If I were to start all again in Dresser, I would not have it any other way like how it is now.

Happy Birthday, Intan and I wish you a whole load of happiness to you on your day till the rest.

Life Is A Gift

This is an extract from The Last Lecture by Randy Pausch.

Alittle bit about this guy. He was a computer science professor in Carnegie Mellon University. He died of pancreatic cancer. The Last Lecture was written for his 3 children he left behind. A little reminder to his li'l ones to notice the goodness all around in their growing years.

A little reminder to us as well......

This is the essence of his message.:

• Never give up - brick walls is there to give us a chance to demonstrate how badly we want something while stoppong those who do not want it badly enough. So instead of complaining, work harder.


• No one is pure evil. If you wait long enough, they will show their good side. Find the best in everyone.


• When you continually keep doing wrong things and no one bothers to say anything anymore, they have given up on you. Your critics care for you; if they don't, you are doomed.


• Tell the truth but tell it in a tactful manner.


• When you have done something wrong that you regret, you need to do three things:

1. Appologize


2. Say that it is your fault


3. Say what you can do to make things better (which is the most difficult and rarely said)

• Have fun in whatever you do

You Put The Devil Out But You Let Him Leave His Bags

Food For Thought

You got out of financial debt, but you still can't control the desire to spend on frivolous things (you let the devil leave his bags).

You got out of a bad relationship because it was bad, but you are still resentful and angry (you let the devil leave his bags).

You got out of a bad habit or addiction, but you still long to try it just one more time (you let the devil leave his bags).

You said, "I forgive you, but you can't seem to forget and have peace with that person (you let the devil leave his bags).

You told you unequally yoked mate that it was over, but you still continue to call (you let the devil leave his bags).

You got out of that horribly oppresive job, but you're still trying to sabotage the company after you've left (you let the devil leave his bags).

You cut off the affair with that married man/woman, but you still lust after him/her (you let the devil leave his bags).

You broke off you relationship with that hurtful, abusive person, but you are suspicious and distrusting of every new person you meet (you let the devil leave his bags).

You decided to let go of the past hurts from growing up in an unstable, family enviroment, yet you belive you are unworthy of love from others and you refuse to get attached to anyone (you let the devil leave his bags).

A note to remember - When You Put The Devil Out, Please Make Sure He Takes His Bags

Something to ponder about

Worry attracts more worry.
Anxiety attracts more anxiety.
Unhappiness attracts more unhappiness.
Dissatisfaction attracts more dissatisfaction.

AND . . .

Joy attracts more joy.
Happiness attracts more happiness.
Peace attracts more peace.
Gratitude attracts more gratitude.
Kindness attracts more kindness.
Love attracts more love.

Your job is an inside one.
To change your world, all you have to do is change the way you feel inside.
How easy is that?

:o) May sunshine be with you always :o)

Gong Xi Fatt Chai

May the strength of the Golden Tiger bring you greater prosperity, health and happiness.

To an abundance of wealth and prosperity.
To an abundance of good health and vigour.

To an abundance of family joy and harmony.

To an abundance of will and strength

in making all your dreams come true.

Happy Valentine's Day

Love is a strange feeling that can be one of the most amazing in all the world.
Love may not make the world go around, but I must admit that it makes the ride worthwhile -Sean Connery-

On Valentine's Day we think of those,
Who make our lives worthwhile,

Those gracious, friendly people who

We think of with a smile

Good is underneath every single thing that appears to be negative

I happen to see this in my mail yesterday. Its a nice little reminder.

Good is underneath every single thing that appears to be negative.

If we can know that good is all there is, including in a negative situation, then we will see a negative situation transform into all good.

Most people keep the good away from themselves because they label something as bad, and then, of course, that becomes their reality.

But there is no bad in the Universe; it is just our inability to see things clearly from the bigger perspective.